Been busy on so many things recently and didn’t have time to blog about this. It actually happened about a month ago.
The story goes like this, most of you knew that I have 2 Myanmar maids (maid A & B). Maid A has been working for us since Dillon was born and maid B came after Kaith was born. Everything was fine until April, maid B decided to quit so ok, we can’t do much but to let her go in end May.
We were trying to get a replacement but no luck, luckily my mother-in-law (MIL) was there to help out and I truly appreciate that. In fact, I didn’t know that my MIL is so capable in doing housework and handling kids until then.
Anyway, not long after that my MIL discovered that my maid A has an attitude problem. Maybe she’s been working with us for long and she always thought that we rely so much on her & we can’t lose her(since I’m wokring full time), so she did not respect my MIL in many ocassions.
For instance my MIL said she put too much salt for Dillon’s food, she fight back and said no, and then the next day, she asked my MIL to cook herself so that she won’t complain. Another thing is that my MIL asked her to wake up at 6am to mop the floor & clean the house before kids wakes up (kids wake up at 7am plus), she said she cannot get up that early and she is used to get up after 7am with the kids (yes, it was also our fault to have given in too much earlier on.)
Furthermore maid A asked for a pay increase again (after increased during CNY) because we didn’t get a replacement for maid B and she has to do a lot more, which is really nonsense. We rejected her & insisted her to follow what my MIL said, and then she said she wanted to quit. Perhaps she thought we would ask her to stay, but we didn’t, my MIL was so pissed up with her attitude and didn’t want her to stay, so my maid A will only stay with us till end of June now.
Luckily we have found an Indonesian maid as replacement, although we are not sure how good/bad this maid is, but with my MIL around to train her and keep an eye on her, I’m not too worried.
I hope my my kids will get along well with the new maid too, wish me luck!
14 Responses
coffeesncookies
June 15th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
1you cannot give in too much to them. made the right choice and good luck with your new maid.
karenyiau: agree….we treated her like our family member and that was very wrong, a lesson is learned now!
Cynthia
June 15th, 2009 at 5:29 pm
2good luck to you on the new maid.. and don’t worry, kids can adapt very well de.. also, you won’t want them to be too dependent with the maids too
karenyiau: thanks! and true la, i’m happy that my MIL stepped in and I’m more confident in how she takes care of my kids and most importantly, she is on the same page with me when it comes to disciplining the kids.
Jess
June 15th, 2009 at 10:40 pm
3wah… you hire two maid…
better don’t keep them at home if you notice they form such bad attitude, else, they will try to be funny to your kids that you are not aware.
wen
June 16th, 2009 at 2:47 pm
4shd be find since ur MIL will be around. ur MIL is very nice and good that she is so willing to do all these for u.
Mery
June 17th, 2009 at 1:07 am
5Hope ur new maid won;t giv any problem..
chinnee
June 17th, 2009 at 6:51 pm
6hope it would just be a transition period for you and your family. Indo maids are not that bad afterall, at least smarter than cambo ones. but attitude prob, hehe..cannot avoid la coz they are human after all…
Merryn
June 17th, 2009 at 11:17 pm
7i wish u all the best of luck with ur new maid. i’ve never like to have maid. so far i’ve survived without a maid. but i wont know if in the future i’ll need one or not. maid maid maid.. haih..
familyfirst
June 18th, 2009 at 9:40 am
8wish you all the best. guess it shd be ok since MIL is around to show her what to do, etc. first few weeks she be tough, after that shd be ok kua. well maids .. treat them well and they go on top of our head.
mummy gwen
June 19th, 2009 at 2:16 am
9Wah..your old maid very jahatlah. I hope yr new maid is a good one.
allthingspurple
June 19th, 2009 at 11:10 pm
10As long as they are not biadap and dont kill themselves being lazy, they are okay la. My last maid is so biadap that my mom, my siblings, my MIL ,FIL, SIL and practically everyone cannot stand her. Even though she did something unhygenic or unsafe against instruction completely understood, she threw things , slam doors and pots and pans if we as much as tell her. She also like to take shower with the door ajar in MIL , my house and my moms house. And change her clothes in the kitchen or FIL’s back yard instaed of her own bedroom. Counselling by the agent doesnt help. We are all darn happy to do check out memo for her now.
Merryn
June 22nd, 2009 at 11:12 pm
11btw, i’ve added u to my blog roll .
Martini
June 28th, 2009 at 1:52 pm
12oh, never heard of Myanmar maid before. You are so lucky to have a great MIL to help you out.
Hope this round you will get a good maid!
sasha
July 1st, 2009 at 5:10 pm
13eksyen juga ar yr maid. Mine also wake up at 7am.. blame it on us for thinking 6 am is too early. Anyway i hope u get a good maid
Anyway i saw yr banner in atria, U design sendiri wan ah ??
karenyiau: Thanks, my current new maid ok la, beggar can’t be chooser right?
The banner was designed by our friend, but my kids photos was taken by my hubby, hehe, nice or not? So did you go to shop at The Baby Bliss? *wink wink*
mmmy Alice
April 30th, 2010 at 5:00 pm
14Hi Karen, come across that you have Myanmar maid before. Is Myanmar maid better compare to your Indo Maid? I have Indo maid before, and they give me lots of problem. How to apply Myanmar maid? Thru agent? How about salary? And processing fees? Thanks!
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